There is no courage to be kind! 4 tips you can feel free

Even if you want to be kind, there are not a few people who feel uncomfortable with their teeth.
A woman without the courage to be kind

It's very nice to be kind to people.

With the elevator, you can't naturally ask "What floor?"


Even if you find a lost child, you will pretend to miss it

If you are thankful that "Thank you" and "I will be saved", I feel refreshed all day long!

There are a few tricks to do casually.

In this article, we will introduce 4 tips that you can feel free to be kind to .



4 tips you can feel free



(1) “Being prepared” is important for kindness


Whatever you do, “ready” is important.


For example ...

'Please introduce yourself in front of everyone'
If you are told that suddenly, you will be upset.

If you don't have a ready attitude, everyone will be overwhelmed.

Kindness is the same.

・ Grandfather falls in front of you

・ Lost child is crying


When something happens, everyone is upset.
Even if you are kind, if you are not prepared, you will be overwhelmed.

So how do you get ready?
This is surprisingly easy!

Decide in your heart, I will be kind to people today!

Whether you wake up in the morning or leave the entrance, it's OK.

I ’ll be kind to people today!


It takes only about 2 seconds, but the changes that occur are dramatic.


● Even during commuting, you will see more people in need than before.

● If you encounter a person in need, you ’ll want to reach out to me.

● If a person runs from the other side of the elevator, your hand will naturally reach the “open button”

A single word I will be kind to people today makes the behavior completely different.


Even if I couldn't be kind enough that day ...

I just feel that it's my turn if anything, and I feel good.

A kind person is not a person who wants to be helpful, but a person who has determined that "useful!"

                                    POINT 
Let's go out thinking I'll be kind to people today!



② “Lost” is the enemy of courage

Even if you want to give your grandmother a seat on the train ...

What should I do, what should I do?

This lost is the enemy of courage.

The longer you get lost, the more you lose the courage to be kind.


That said, I think a lot.

If you refuse, you're not good

I wonder if it ’s a big deal

I wonder if people around you are hypocritical

That's it.

The love that came out with a lot of effort will be deep into your heart.
There is only one way to break this doubt.

If you see a troubled person, be kind within 3 seconds

The important thing is to do it before you get lost.
That is within 3 seconds


The trick is ...


At the moment you find a person in need, shout in your heart, "It's my turn!"

If you don't hesitate, you will realize that you don't need courage.

You can also be proud of yourself who was quick and kind.

                                      POINT 
If you see a person in need, be kind within 3 seconds!


 ③ Raise love

Someone who is naturally born and loves to take care of others.

There may be such caring people around you.
What is that person different from ordinary people?


That is the strength of love.
Love is a feeling that values ​​people.

In other words, if love is strong, you can be a kind person.

So is there a way to strengthen love?

That's it!

What is that method…

I hope in my heart, I hope this person will be happy.
If possible, 100 people a day.
People on the way to work


If you continue this for three months, you will definitely strengthen your love.

A feeling that values ​​people grows up.
Then, if you see a person in need, you can't let go.

There are many other ways to nurture love, including fundraising and volunteering.

Above all, the method of “wishing people's happiness” is the easiest and most effective.

Now, try this method ...

Some people may feel uncomfortable, Why do I have to hope for the happiness of people?

The unpleasant feeling is ego.
Evidence that ego has been pushed out by love in the heart.

If you repeat this many times, love will be accumulated in your heart.

Love accumulates
The heart is cleansed, and nature and kindness come out.



                                      POINT
Hope in your heart, Let this person be happy!



④ I like humans


People who dislike humans are wary of everyone they meet.
Of course, you can't be kind.

What you need to do before becoming a kind person.
It means that you become human lover

Here's how to do that.

Think about the advantages of all acquaintances


Even if you think you hate it, there must be an advantage.

・ It is a noisy director, but no one has a passion for work.
・ I'm an immature parent, but I've grown up immaturely


Just think about the merits of all your acquaintances.


Then, it is a strange thing, and it becomes a person who likes people.
At the same time, the alertness to others of red disappears.

People who meet in the city do not know what they are thinking just by looking at them.

However, the person is also the same person as himself or an acquaintance.


There are advantages and disadvantages.


There are also worries and anxieties.

Some people like it and others have families.

And like you, you have a gentle feeling and a pure heart.


That is the true identity of the red others.


The way to notice it is to think about the merits of an acquaintance.

It may take about 30 minutes, but I think there is no loss after trying it.



                                POINT
 Think about the “advantages” of all acquaintances!





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